My mum is notoriously difficult to buy for. She’s the kind of person who says “I don’t want anything” and genuinely means it. She’s not being polite – she just doesn’t like clutter.

But this year was her 65th, and I felt like I needed to get something meaningful. Not a scarf. Not a candle. Something she’d actually keep and wear.

I spent weeks looking. I scrolled through hundreds of jewellery sites, read about different metals, and stared at photos of necklaces that all looked the same until my eyes went blurry.

I eventually found a small UK‑based brand that I’d seen recommended in a Facebook group. They sold simple, modern necklaces with a soft gold finish and delicate engraving – nothing too flashy, but clearly well made.

I chose a necklace with a tiny disc pendant. On the back, I had them engrave: “For Mum – thank you for everything.” Simple. Understated. But personal.

What I learned from this experience:

• Personalisation makes all the difference. The engraving took it from “nice necklace” to something she’ll keep forever.

• Quality over quantity. I was tempted to buy a set with matching earrings, but the single piece is more elegant and feels more special.

• Good packaging matters – it arrived in a small fabric pouch and a minimalist box that made the unwrapping feel like an occasion.

On the day of her birthday, she opened the box, read the engraving, and didn’t say anything for a good 20 seconds. Then she said “Oh, Sophie…” and cried. That’s the kind of gift I want to keep giving.

I ordered from zilrone.com – delivery was free and pretty quick, considering the engraving took two extra days. The customer service team answered my questions about the engraving font within a few hours, which I really appreciated.

If you’re trying to find a meaningful gift for someone who has everything – consider something personal. A necklace with a date, a name, or a short message. It’s the kind of thing they’ll never buy for themselves, but they’ll treasure forever.